I think that it is too easy for people to dismiss those around them when there are much more interesting things occupying their time (like television, work, other life stresses), but it turns out that we generally do agree on making life a better experience. By communicating with each other, we can better understand how to construct a collaborative solution that is inclusive and can be championed by a greater number of stakeholders. A solution designed by a single person, or a single type of person, is not going to be one that will be upheld or relate to the majority of people. I have used October as an opportunity to reach out to neighbors in the same apartment building who would otherwise be strangers, connect with regulars at the dog park who I see often and have never spoken to, and connecting with people I've frequented for years but never really gotten to know (like my hair lady & doctor). It has made this month feel a lot more "human" and helps other people see the same--that we're all getting through this experience together and that no one truly intends to hurt someone else with their actions. When we communicate and share our values, we're able to expose certain biases of our own and address them in a way that isn't defensive. I've been working to build my community for years realizing I had never been able to practice that in my neighborhood growing up. I endeavor to be a good neighbor so that others know what that looks like and have the resource should they need it. It builds respect, and whenever I talk about why I compost, recycle diligently, or don't get food delivered, etc, they understand why I would choose that, and I dare say it has pushed them to make their own impactful & intentional choices which together make a huge difference.